Friday, February 27, 2009

Building a house in Mexico

If you've never built a house in Mexico it's an experience I highly recommend. It's not "easy" and sometimes it's not "fun" but it is rewarding beyond words, and God always teaches me something during the experience. Please check out One Mission's website if you're considering a trip. You can even take your kids, if they are older. They can get a lot out of this experience and there are real ways they can contribute to the process.

I also have to say that at the end of the day this trip is not about the house that's been built, but about the love that's been shown to the family you build for. Whether or not you develop a relationship with them, you have shown them love by giving of your time and money to build them a house.

Before we went the first time I was a little skeptical that 15 non-skilled laborers could build a "house." Now that I know more (a lot more) about the process it's really cool to see it all come together.

A few quick details about what I mean by "house."
11' x 22' wood structure with a concrete floor
Plywood roof with rolled shingles for water protection
2 doors and 2 windows for the whole structure
Plywood, black felt paper and chicken wire exterior covered in stucco (used to be just stretched baling wire, paper and chicken wire- the plywood is a MAJOR improvement)
The house does not have: water, electricity, finished walls inside, heat, AC, etc
The house is a castle compared to what these families are currently living in.


Here's a quick picture story of how it works.

This is the family's "view" from the front of their house. We build on what used to be the dump so it's full of trash and all kinds of random things. This is the worst location we've ever built on for trash and debris.



All of the gear packed up and ready to go. One Mission provides each team with all of the tools you need to build a home. That sure beats hauling it all down with you!




Tent city where we slept. You can bring trailers and RVs but we don't have one! It was very cold at night. About 40. Once we got our system down on how to stay warm it wasn't that bad. The park also has running water, a cantina where we ate hot meals, and a pool for the warmer months. It's really quite nice!



The pad is about half finished at this point. Normally you have to level the land before you start, but the husband, Jesus, had the whole thing leveled and ready to go when we got there. By looking at the property, if he hadn't done that we would have spent about 2 hours doing it. Having a concrete floor is more than just a luxury for them. It provides a healthier environment so they don't get sick nearly as often. It deters pests and bugs, their old "house" had a sand floor. And it helps them maintain the temperature for the cold winter months and hot summer months.




Mixing concrete for the floor. All mixing is done by hand in wheelbarrows using shovels and hoes. It takes several hours to make enough concrete for a 11' x 22' pad.



Building the side walls takes place in the sand. You lay out each wall and put it together according to very detailed instructions in the manual. Construction is simple with 2x4's cut to the proper length with hand saws. You put one piece of 2x4 (called a fireblock) perpendicular between studs for added strength. You use California corners on some walls so that you can attach them to each other once you stand the walls up. We put most of the plywood on the walls while they were still on the ground so we could get each wall as square as possible.



Raising the side walls. You can see the interior of the walls in this picture. This is how the walls are left when we leave. Some families have enough money to get drywall or some other covering, others leave the walls as is.



Getting the plywood on the roof and finishing up the side walls with plywood as well.



Getting the rolled roof paper laid down and finishing the felt paper and chicken wire for the side walls. Notice the young boy flying a kite, they had so much fun flying those kites. Wish I could remember the Spanish word for kite....


Putting the final touches on the roof. You have to seal the seams of the rolled roof with tar in order to prevent water leaks.



In process with the first coat of stucco. You can see the felt paper and chicken wire. Also, they are putting the finishing touches on the roof as well.



Almost finished with the first coat of stucco. We came back the next day to do the second coat because it takes awhile for the stucco to dry.



Grandpa Long sweeping out the finished product. You can see 2 of the doors and one window.




The whole building crew in front of the finished product. We love building with high school students. They work SUPER hard and are lots of fun. They love to play with the kids and take them on trips to the "store" 2 houses away to buy them treats. We see the truly selfless and loving side of the students when we are there.




3 generations of Longs with Jesus and Marlen.

Pizza day at preschool

Amelia's preschool teacher had them make mini-pizzas this week because they are studying the letter P. She was SO excited and couldn't wait to get to school that day. This is the conversation we had in the car when I picked her up.

Me: Tell me about making pizzas.
Amelia: Well, we had sauce, cheese, french biscuits and pepperoni. It was so fun.
M: Umm, french biscuits? What's that?
A: You know, the bottom part, a french biscuit.
M: (thinking, thinking, thinking) OH, do you mean English Muffins?
A: Oh yeah, English Muffins, anyway the pizza was really good :)

I just might try making pizza with french biscuits some time, it sounds very fancy!

Friday, February 20, 2009

Dad & Daughter Dance

The highlight of Amelia's year. Every February Ian and Amelia go to a dinner & dance at our church. As soon as it's over she asks when they are going again! We spent about an hour getting her ready today complete with painted nails, braided hair, glittered face and some of mom's jewelry. I took this video of her dancing before they left. Oh it makes me want to freeze her in time!





She wanted a "Cinderella" picture. Not exactly sure what that means, but she posed like this so I snapped the shot.




Funny face and the "Cinderella" picture combined.




Daddy and Daughter

Great-Grandpa Visits

Ian's Grandpa Long visited AZ this past week and joined us on a mission trip to Mexico. We built an 11' by 22' home for a family in Rocky Point, MX. Grandpa, Ian's mom and Ian's dad all joined in the construction with about 15 high school students and some youth leaders. It was great to get a 4 generations picture with Grandpa and the girls really enjoyed being with him. Amelia read him books and showed him her baby book.

4 Generations of Longs from 86 to 1!




Enjoying Great-Grandpa!




The Long Family with Jesus and Marlen in front of their new house!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

He who is the tallest claps loudest

As heard in our car during our "commute" home from preschool yesterday.

Amelia clapped really loud and said, "Wow I can clap really loud, but not as loud as you mom."
Emery, copying everything big sister does, clapped as well.
Amelia: "But I can clap louder than Emery!"
Me: "Yes, and see how loud I can clap." (clap, clap)
Amelia: "Yeah but Daddy can clap louder because he's taller."
Me: Laughter "What?"
Amelia: "Well, I'm taller than Emery and clap louder, you're taller than me and clap louder so Daddy can clap the loudest because he's the tallest."

HA- I love 5 year old logic :)

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Friday, February 6, 2009

Collecting Bubbles



So the other day Emery was taking a bath and she started collecting bubbles in her cup. She's totally into putting something into a cup or bucket and then taking it back out. As I noticed her doing this it made me giggle. She didn't even realize that there was nothing in her cup!

But, it also made me think about how I feel some days are totally like this. I do a lot of things that end up being similar to picking up bubbles with nothing to show for it at the end of the day. Don't get me wrong, I know a lot of the things I do as a wife and mom are important, but the effort I put into it gets wiped out quickly. For example: laundry, picking up toys, dishes, etc. I also understand why those efforts are wiped away quickly. It's called the Second Law of Thermodynamics. Everything in the world will move from order to disorder unless you put some energy into it to keep it in order. See, I do use my high powered engineering degree :)

Anyway, it made me think about my cup at the end of the day. It's OK (and actually necessary) that I collect bubbles throughout the day. However, being a Christian it's NOT OK to have an empty cup at the end of the day. Not because God will ding my report card or anything like that, but because He's called me to something higher: to worship Him.

In our high school Bible study we just watched a video about Paul's last days in Rome. He wrote the book of 2 Timothy just before he died and it's full of amazing wisdom. The part that really struck a cord with me was the idea of my faith being more of a marathon instead of a sprint. So, in order to run the race God has set before me I need to do something each day (even if it's small) to worship my God.

What worship of God is will be different for all us. For me, reading my Bible is one of the main ways I worship. Talking to my girls about Jesus is another way. Spending time with high school students and helping them figure out who God made them to be is another way. See, no formulas here, just what I've found pleases God in my everyday life. So I want to encourage myself and you- make sure today isn't just about collecting bubbles.

Some Recent Pictures

Here are some recent pictures of what's been happening around the Long house.

Our friends Jen and Jesse came out for a visit a few weekends ago. We went for an amazing hike in our neighborhood. Amelia walked the whole thing minus one stretch of being carried. Only in AZ could you do this in January!




Emery loves to eat black beans lately. But she sure makes a mess!




GO CARDS!! The girls were so excited for the game. Don't you love the outfits? Amelia still gets teary eyed when they run the "We are Proud of our AZ Cards" commercials on TV. She says, "I just really wanted them to win." She has little concept of football, but when she picks a side she's VERY loyal. Jess left her eye stickers on for a whole of 10 minutes- she did not like them on her face!